While there was no “last straw” of sorts, she claims Schwartz “didn’t really do anything” after hearing her feelings on where they stood, as he believed her worries were simply something that would pass.

“I think he thought that I was just gonna get over it or something. And then—it was a couple weeks later—I had decided that I had wanted to get a divorce,” she said, claiming it was the best decision for both them and herself. “I think we had both changed and grown apart and that maybe this marriage wasn’t the healthiest thing for us.”

And though Schwartz “didn’t necessarily agree” with Maloney’s decision, he didn’t fight her about it.

While the two are still living together for the time being, Maloney revealed that she is ready to jump back into the dating pool. Having not been single since she was 24, the now 36-year-old is excited to meet new people “the old-fashioned way” and not through dating apps.

“You would think that after being with someone for 12 years and all of this that you would not be ready for that, but I feel like I am and would be down for all of that,” she said. “But, when you’re still living with your ex, it does present some obstacles, for sure.”

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